So, your one and only question is will he/she will get in touch with you again? This is one of the mysteries of the human psyche and it is one of the mysteries of love. When a person wallows in silence and puts themself in underwater mode, there is still a solution… Everyone knows the expression: "Run away from me, I run after you, Run away from you, you follow me.”. Let me explain, I am not here to put you on trial, however when a person suggests the need for a break in a relationship, it is that this time is more than a need, in certain cases of breakup, it is a necessity. Let’s suppose you can't stand the fact of being separated and the only way to heal yourself from such an injury would be just be to hear their voice, aren't we in some kind of love manipulation? But if the valid reason would be to know if he or she still loves you, then that changes everything. When patience alternates with impatience: Harmful damage
Faced with radio silence, many people find there is a valid reason to reiterate the contacts, which unfortunately push them to the extreme… Result: many people find themselves at the limits of being harassed.
To blame your partner for such behaviour may seem legitimate, and therefore we do not see the line that should not be crossed. But why don’t they answer my calls? Your little inner voice tells you "But what are they playing at?" When our partner does not answer any calls or messages, it is then that a wave of emotions invades us, leaving us stuck in an endless wait.Īnd that's when resentment or anger, with a few nuances, kicks in, spiralling out of control. If I start this article with such a revealing introduction, it's that the adverse effects of resentment can have an irreversible impact on the relationship.Īnd yet, I know that this is not your intention, but unfortunately what may be perceived by the other partner is quite another thing.Īfter the announcement of a breakup, we cannot help but try to clarify things and to do this, the use of the phone, calls or texting, seems to be the first instinct.
Did you know that resentment arises from our expectations and resentment also gives rise to our expectations?
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